[Bigballsofpaint]

The only advice I can give that differs from whats been said previously, buy a Bluetooth headset for both of you. My fiancé was very similar on our rides, I wouldn't go super fast, but even at a comfortable pace for me it was too fast for her and I would feel the bike fighting int he turns. We would get to a stop sign and I tell her do this, do that, but it all went out the window in the next turn if she didn't feel comfortable. S

Since we both have headsets now we can talk real time, I can tell her mid corner, lean more and she does. Or don't lean that way and she will stop, it has made riding together much more enjoyable, and much safer. After a corner you can ask, now didn't that feel better, or good job, etc.