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Originally Posted by bob706
Our daughter will spend one week with her then one week with me. My lawyer said that would be less stressful for my daughter so I went with it.
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Uhh...
I don't want to make you feel bad, but...
First, there are the "physichal" issues of having to have everything double, or having to move in and move out every week.
And second, much more worse actually, is having to adopt to the new environment every week. In a few months most of the things (meaning: routines, behavioral patterns in the first place, and then real actual things like the milk or juice or food, or tv channels, or the speed of broadband or the type of matresses) you had in common with your now ex are probably going to dissapear, and as much as I can tell from your posts she already is someone completely different. If I were your daughter, I would not be comfortable switching lifestyles every week.
I did not catch how old your daughter is, but some things need to be constant in a life of a child. If she is over 20 that's another story, but I have a feeling she is not.