Being nice is fine and dandy, but it needs to have a limit (probably higher than mine, but I'm trying).
I won't let someone walk on me, and my kindness can/will turn quickly!
However, for me, if I got something to say I do and it is
very frank and how I see things, no sugar coating, no big fancy words. Plus being raised in Chicago and an ex-sailor, I swear
a lot, some see this as being angry but for me it's just part of normal convos..so if you see me cussing I'm probably not mad, just being 'frank' as I'm told I do.
However, sometimes people just don't deserve kind, they need the truth and need it in a way I provide