Thanks, but I'm still confused.
The green kit has no wire to connect to the "Bi-Xenon control light" connection from the control box. It has four connectors, two of which go to the HID bulb, two which connect to the inverter/igniter (assume they are both for CCFL). I don't think any of those could control the solenoid.
The yellow kit has the extra wire to connect to the "Bi-Xenon control light" connection from the control box, but it also supposedly has demon/devil/evil eyes, which I assume is powered on when I flip on my high beams. I guess it also activates the solenoids when I do that, but it's still only on the yellow kit.
There's still the whole problem where each kit is missing a wire harness and the green kit has no CCFL inverters/igniters.
I sent the seller an email last night. I'm not in a hurry because I have enough to get one kit working (all I need for now) but I do need them to make it right.