October 31st, 2011, 11:28 PM | #41 |
Over 40 Ninjette Owner
Name: John
Location: Lancaster, Pa
Join Date: May 2010 Motorcycle(s): 2008 Kawasaki VN900C (Black)/2009 Kawasaki Ninja 250R (Red) SOLD BOTH Posts: 77
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Howdy Leo:
I reread the post, and I somehow missed "stepson" the first time. Don't feel guilty about the Ninjette (can I get an "Amen" from all the Ninjetteers???), especially if you've gone and bought a vehicle for someone else's responsibility. As I approach my 42nd year and look forward to marriage and having kids (May, 2012 is our target month) it burns to see someone like you step up and try to take care of a child, even if he is not your own, and get basically punked out like that. Who are those people to tell you how to spend your money? You bought the SUV for the convenience of the baby, not THEM. I seem to smell something fishy going on here...it seems like they are more concerned about what's in it for them, and they are using the baby as a guilt trip to make you buy something more appropriate for their tastes. THEY are not your responsibility, but you stepped up to do something selfless and for the baby. As many of the members here have so eloquently said, flip them the double bird and tell them to go **** off. Enjoy the Ninja! Johnny
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November 1st, 2011, 07:27 AM | #43 |
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Name: nickypoo
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I'm sorry Leo...
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November 1st, 2011, 10:48 AM | #44 |
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Name: Rick
Location: Winter Park, Fl
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You did a really stand up thing. Not many guys would do what you did for a chick they aren't married to and with a kid who isn't theirs. From the sound of it, it seems she has some growing up to do. You went above and beyond and you should be proud of that.
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November 1st, 2011, 11:00 AM | #45 |
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In the words of John Paul Sartre, "Hell is other people."
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November 1st, 2011, 11:17 AM | #46 |
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you traded one two-seater for another two-seater. i see no issue...if anything you are being responsible for getting a high mileage vehicle
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November 1st, 2011, 12:36 PM | #47 | |
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November 1st, 2011, 01:25 PM | #48 |
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Name: Leo
Location: Washington State
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yep, just this past weekend
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November 1st, 2011, 01:25 PM | #49 |
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Name: Leo
Location: Washington State
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yea. her family was talking about me behind my back any whoo.
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November 1st, 2011, 01:27 PM | #50 | |
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November 1st, 2011, 03:50 PM | #51 |
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Name: Peanut
Location: Senoia, GA
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I was gonna say "sell her and HER kid and buy more motorcycles" but she seems to have taken care of that. It sounds like you're better off without her. Don't worry, your Ninja's parents will never get between you and your bike.
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November 1st, 2011, 03:59 PM | #52 |
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Name: chris
Location: Hawaii
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100lbs of lime, hydrogen peroxide and heat/sun...no traces will be left.
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November 1st, 2011, 08:29 PM | #53 |
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Name: Leo
Location: Washington State
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In washington the sun does not exist, only rain lol
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November 1st, 2011, 08:29 PM | #54 |
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Name: Leo
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i know. My ninja loves me
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November 2nd, 2011, 02:28 AM | #55 |
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Name: Darryl
Location: Brisbane, Australia
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Where has the father of the child been through all this ??. It sound harsh but my ex was somehting similar cared more about her mum and dad etc, I am glad the woman I married (been married for 14 years) after being with my ex for 7 years parents etc are dead and relos are drugo ****heads.
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November 2nd, 2011, 08:57 AM | #56 | |
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November 2nd, 2011, 09:12 AM | #57 |
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Name: Peanut
Location: Senoia, GA
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Do I really need to say it?
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November 2nd, 2011, 09:38 AM | #58 |
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Name: Ruslan
Location: San Jose
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Go find a single with no children woman and have your own child.
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November 2nd, 2011, 09:45 AM | #59 |
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Name: Cody
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Sorry to hear that, Leo. Generally speaking, if someone (or their family) makes a huge deal about stupid stuff such as this then maybe your better off not being in a relationship with them anyway. Best of luck.
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November 2nd, 2011, 10:55 AM | #60 |
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Name: Leo
Location: Washington State
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i know i know. lol im just trying to make it through college. the right one will come when the time is right. until then. NINJA!!!! lol
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November 2nd, 2011, 11:12 AM | #61 |
Fighterer in Training
Name: Joshua
Location: Schenectady, NY
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Dude, how old are you? Finish up school, get your degree, get a kick ass job that you love, THEN worry about finding that girl with no kids. Trust me. Ask me how I know this...
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November 2nd, 2011, 11:53 AM | #62 |
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Name: Ruslan
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yup ride that ninja! haha
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November 2nd, 2011, 11:56 AM | #63 |
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screw it. this could be the best thing that has ever happened to you
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November 2nd, 2011, 05:53 PM | #64 |
Winging It In Life
Name: Umar
Location: SoCal
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This might sound f*cked up but I would take this as a win. Now you don't have to raise someone else's child nor deal with "in-laws" who act like you're supposed to do anything differently for someone else's child, you get what I'm saying?
Nothing wrong with raising a step-child but I do think it's problematic when you've only been with the girl for a short period of time. One thing I do have to ask is did this girl not have her own vehicle?
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November 2nd, 2011, 08:06 PM | #65 | |
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Name: Leo
Location: Washington State
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For JLinde1339^^ im 20, im working on my BA in Comp Sci, and im not stressed about it. I miss her, miss the baby, but whats done is done and your right. Im young and got a lot to do before i settle down. Thanks for the input, i appreciate it.
For Heed^^ i know i know, i keep telling my self that. lol Quote:
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November 2nd, 2011, 08:37 PM | #66 |
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Name: nickypoo
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@Leo, no offense to @Heed, but him (and I) are still young, therefore can't offer advice that we can back up. Just wanted to let you know.
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November 2nd, 2011, 08:40 PM | #67 | |
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November 2nd, 2011, 08:51 PM | #68 | |
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November 2nd, 2011, 08:55 PM | #69 |
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Name: Leo
Location: Washington State
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lol everyone callllmmm down...lol jk jk. Hay im only 20 and i got enough too much exp. lol thanks for the feedback btw.
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November 2nd, 2011, 10:49 PM | #70 |
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Name: Joon
Location: Orange County, CA
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Find yourself a real woman. Men and women, some people never really leave the nest, emotionally speaking. That's a decades worth of headache you don't need to burden yourself with.
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