Should I bother telling my dad I got my endorsement?

Heed · September 11th, 2011, 02:56 PM

This is kind of silly. Should I? Lol

supermanzdead · September 11th, 2011, 02:58 PM

Why wouldn't you tell him?

Heed · September 11th, 2011, 03:48 PM

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Originally Posted by supermanzdead

Why wouldn't you tell him?

I don't know. Maybe I'll surprise him one day.

My dad currently live with his parents, and if I tell him, then my grandparents will know too. I'm not sure if I want them to find out because there's a chance they'll get worried and give me a spiel on how dangerous motorcycles are. Maybe I'll keep it low key for a while longer.

TXJ · September 11th, 2011, 06:12 PM

It is silly. It makes you seem like you're not very mature if you can't face a basic step of life like sharing a interest with family members. Deal with it now so it doesn't become a problem later.

rusninja · September 11th, 2011, 06:14 PM

Its cause you wana ditch him :P?

Mocha Man · September 11th, 2011, 06:54 PM

I say go ahead and tell him but maybe tell him to not tell your grandparents. Sorry if that was a little confusing to follow :P

Mr.E · September 11th, 2011, 06:57 PM

Either way your going to have to tell them. I also agree with the post above, saying it shows a sign of maturity. Did you take an MSF yet? if so, let them know. If not, tell them you will. showing safety first will help a lot. Also, let them know youre aware of the risks and accept that. That is the first step to getting a motorcycle, knowing the risks involved and accepting that they exists and there is a possibility.

Kurgan · September 11th, 2011, 07:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Heed

I don't know. Maybe I'll surprise him one day.

My dad currently live with his parents, and if I tell him, then my grandparents will know too. I'm not sure if I want them to find out because there's a chance they'll get worried and give me a spiel on how dangerous motorcycles are. Maybe I'll keep it low key for a while longer.

Just hit them with the stats on how many people are killed in or with a car versus motorcycle deaths. Fewer people die every year on bikes than by cars by a huge amount.

lv250 · September 11th, 2011, 07:40 PM

I would tell them here is my experience with having the same sort of issue.

I took the class at 16 with out my parents knowing. I got my license and purchased a bike. I hid it in the shed since my parents never did yard work that was my job.

I was always told by my mom I would never have a bike while I lived under their roof. So now you know why I hid it.

One day I skipped school parked the bike right in front of the door to the house. Well my mom also skipped work and caught me coming out with helmet in hand.

Man did I get the lecture. But when my dad got home he calmed my mom down and they made rules that I had to follow and had to buy new safe gear.

Let the lecture happen if there is one. Ensure them with the idea that you have taken a class and explain you understand the risks. They maybe more supportive then you think and may even get a little excited. Ya never really know. Especially if you share the shopping for the bike with them.

bkh2 · September 11th, 2011, 08:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Kurgan

Just hit them with the stats on how many people are killed in or with a car versus motorcycle deaths. Fewer people die every year on bikes than by cars by a huge amount.

I think the percentage of motorcycle related deaths is higher, though the magnitude of car deaths is higher. That is, since more people drive than ride, a greater number of car related deaths occur. However, the ratio of motorcyclists to motorcycle deaths is higher than the ratio of car drivers to car related deaths.

PsychoNinja · September 12th, 2011, 06:28 AM

Just tell them and get it over with!

I told my parents the day after I bought my motorcycle, in which I did not have my endorsement or learners permit at the time, and were they happy with my decision? No, but they realized that my mind was made up and that telling me about how dangerous motorcycles are would not change my mind.

Plus they did have some peace of mind by knowing I was going to get my learner's permit, endorsement, and wear my safety gear at all times.

Just be honest with your parents. They will respect you more for it.

September 11th, 2011, 02:56 PM	#1
Heed ninjette.org certified postwhore Name: John Location: Illinois Join Date: Aug 2011 Motorcycle(s): None yet, yet. Posts: A lot.	Should I bother telling my dad I got my endorsement? This is kind of silly. Should I? Lol

September 11th, 2011, 06:14 PM	#5
rusninja Ninjette wanabe :D Name: Ruslan Location: San Jose Join Date: Apr 2011 Motorcycle(s): white 300 :D Posts: A lot.	Its cause you wana ditch him :P? __________________________________________________ VROOOM vrooom >.>

September 11th, 2011, 07:40 PM	#9
lv250 ninjette.org member Name: CJ Location: Las Vegas NV Join Date: Sep 2011 Motorcycle(s): 2009 Ninja 250R, 2009 CRF230L, 1998 Honda VT1100c, 1974 Honda XL100, 07 Yamaha Wolverine 350, 06 ArticCat 250 Posts: 43	When i was 16 I would tell them here is my experience with having the same sort of issue. I took the class at 16 with out my parents knowing. I got my license and purchased a bike. I hid it in the shed since my parents never did yard work that was my job. I was always told by my mom I would never have a bike while I lived under their roof. So now you know why I hid it. One day I skipped school parked the bike right in front of the door to the house. Well my mom also skipped work and caught me coming out with helmet in hand. Man did I get the lecture. But when my dad got home he calmed my mom down and they made rules that I had to follow and had to buy new safe gear. Let the lecture happen if there is one. Ensure them with the idea that you have taken a class and explain you understand the risks. They maybe more supportive then you think and may even get a little excited. Ya never really know. Especially if you share the shopping for the bike with them.

September 12th, 2011, 06:28 AM	#11
PsychoNinja Ninja Dog Name: Brady Location: Sunset, UT Join Date: Dec 2010 Motorcycle(s): 2011 Kawasaki Ninja ZX-14 Posts: 186	Just tell them and get it over with! I told my parents the day after I bought my motorcycle, in which I did not have my endorsement or learners permit at the time, and were they happy with my decision? No, but they realized that my mind was made up and that telling me about how dangerous motorcycles are would not change my mind. Plus they did have some peace of mind by knowing I was going to get my learner's permit, endorsement, and wear my safety gear at all times. Just be honest with your parents. They will respect you more for it. __________________________________________________ ALL YOUR NINJA ARE BELONG TO US!

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September 11th, 2011, 02:58 PM	#2
supermanzdead ninjette.org member Name: Jason Location: Omaha, NE Join Date: Oct 2010 Motorcycle(s): Current: 2011 ZX6r Owned: 2010 EX250R "Special Edition" Posts: 71	Why wouldn't you tell him?

September 11th, 2011, 06:12 PM	#4
TXJ Cranky Old Fart Name: TXJ Location: TX Join Date: Apr 2011 Motorcycle(s): 08 DRZ400SM Posts: 189	It is silly. It makes you seem like you're not very mature if you can't face a basic step of life like sharing a interest with family members. Deal with it now so it doesn't become a problem later.

September 11th, 2011, 06:54 PM	#6
Mocha Man Blue Shell magnet Name: Nolan Location: Northwest Washington Join Date: Aug 2011 Motorcycle(s): 1997 Ninja 250 Posts: 816	I say go ahead and tell him but maybe tell him to not tell your grandparents. Sorry if that was a little confusing to follow :P

September 11th, 2011, 06:57 PM	#7
Mr.E That rider dude. Name: Eric Location: Orlando, Fl. Join Date: Apr 2011 Motorcycle(s): 2011 White Ninja 250 SE. Posts: A lot.	Either way your going to have to tell them. I also agree with the post above, saying it shows a sign of maturity. Did you take an MSF yet? if so, let them know. If not, tell them you will. showing safety first will help a lot. Also, let them know youre aware of the risks and accept that. That is the first step to getting a motorcycle, knowing the risks involved and accepting that they exists and there is a possibility.