Becky (Custom Seat Creations) Needs Our Prayers - Page 4

ninjablk08 · August 16th, 2009, 05:16 PM

prayers out to you Becky and your love ones

DarkNinja52 · August 16th, 2009, 05:59 PM

My prayers go to you Becky, Keep positive thoughts in your head, the mind is much more powerful than most people realize. Keep your chin up and you'll be better in no time. Just remember:
Sunny days wouldn't be special, if it weren't for rain, and joy wouldn't feel so good, if it weren't for pain.
Life is hard but it makes you realize the good things you have, focus on the good things and keep those positive thoughts.
Everyone here at ninjette.org is supporting you, you'll get through this..

Strider · August 16th, 2009, 06:45 PM

My Advice : Keep your family close, and hug them as much as you can...
You'll be surprised at the pick-me-up that gives you

Rest and Heal! We're keeping you in our thoughts!

Custom Seat Creations · August 16th, 2009, 08:37 PM

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Originally Posted by ninjablk08

prayers out to you Becky and your love ones

Thank you. You're prayers are welcome. I've never been a religious person, but someone sure watched over me that day.

Custom Seat Creations · August 16th, 2009, 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by DarkNinja52

My prayers go to you Becky, Keep positive thoughts in your head, the mind is much more powerful than most people realize. Keep your chin up and you'll be better in no time. Just remember:
Sunny days wouldn't be special, if it weren't for rain, and joy wouldn't feel so good, if it weren't for pain.
Life is hard but it makes you realize the good things you have, focus on the good things and keep those positive thoughts.
Everyone here at ninjette.org is supporting you, you'll get through this..

aj,

I'm definately trying to stay positive for sure! I know I'll be back to 100%riding in no time.

Ninjette.org member's rock!

Thanks,
Becky

Custom Seat Creations · August 16th, 2009, 08:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Strider

My Advice : Keep your family close, and hug them as much as you can...
You'll be surprised at the pick-me-up that gives you

Rest and Heal! We're keeping you in our thoughts!

Alan,

Yes, hugs are fantastic. I tell my husband how much I appreciate him and love him so much and hug him as much as I can.

Thanks for the reminders. I almost lost everything. I have so much in my life to hold onto and cherish. Sometimes it takes those near death experinces to wake you up. I'm definately awake now and fighting for everything I hold dear.

You guys are the best!

Thanks,
Becky

Verus Cidere · August 16th, 2009, 11:04 PM

Glad to hear you're getting better! Keep up the good work!

BlueTyke · August 17th, 2009, 07:13 AM

When ever you are down, read this thread. Know that you are thought of, loved, and valued. Remember there is always light at the end of the tunnel.

Some good qoutes for a Blue Day from Winnie the Pooh:

Rivers know this: there is no hurry. We shall get there some day.

When looking at your two paws, as soon as you have decided which of them is the right one, then you can be sure the other one is the left.

Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass...it's about getting out there and dancing in the rain!

Custom Seat Creations · August 17th, 2009, 07:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BlueTyke

When ever you are down, read this thread. Know that you are thought of, loved, and valued. Remember there is always light at the end of the tunnel.

Some good qoutes for a Blue Day from Winnie the Pooh:

Rivers know this: there is no hurry. We shall get there some day.

When looking at your two paws, as soon as you have decided which of them is the right one, then you can be sure the other one is the left.

Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass...it's about getting out there and dancing in the rain!

Sunny,

You're a breath of fresh air. Thank you for your encouragement.

Warmest regards,
Becky

BlueTyke · August 18th, 2009, 10:12 AM

Anytime!

Custom Seat Creations · August 22nd, 2009, 08:04 AM

Each day feels better than before. I slept almost the whole day yesterday. Felt really good. I definately feel stir-crazy having to rest all the time. I'm normally a go go person. Movies sure help from the tedium. I think I'll write a journal of what's been happening and hopefully someday can post it here.

noche_caliente · August 22nd, 2009, 08:10 AM

Becky - thanks for updating us - you've been on my mind!

Custom Seat Creations · August 22nd, 2009, 08:53 AM

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Originally Posted by noche_caliente

Becky - thanks for updating us - you've been on my mind!

Thanks for the phone call yesterday. I figured you'd check the board. I had everything turned off so I could get some sleep. Thanks for checking in on me.

~Becky

zartan · August 22nd, 2009, 10:03 AM

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Trying to deal with all the emotional aspects of this is very hard. Anyone have any suggestions on where to start? Please PM me if you'd rather not post. I'm just trying to get through every day as it comes.

Becky, Happy to hear you are home.

Hey it is ok to get steaming mad, than really sad, and then really glad you are alive.
It is a process and you can't cheat any emotion or it will come back around and around until it gets it's due. And it will do it when you least expect it.
( YIKES! 4 month down the road in the produce isle. look out tomato's)

So process gently but thoroughly.
The time down must be maddening. Some crazy reason, but still not fair. Wish you continued amazing strength.. Zart

Custom Seat Creations · August 22nd, 2009, 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by zartan

Becky, Happy to hear you are home.

Hey it is ok to get steaming mad, than really sad, and then really glad you are alive.
It is a process and you can't cheat any emotion or it will come back around and around until it gets it's due. And it will do it when you least expect it.
( YIKES! 4 month down the road in the produce isle. look out tomato's)

So process gently but thoroughly.
The time down must be maddening. Some crazy reason, but still not fair. Wish you continued amazing strength.. Zart

Zartan,

Yes, all those and so much more.

Thanks!
~Becky

Alex · August 22nd, 2009, 12:08 PM

Hang in there, Becky! The keys to this are a comfy couch, a whole bunch of comfort food, a particularly advanced remote control in front of a very large TV, and folks that are happy to bring over as much food and Vicodin as needed.

Every day will be a little better than the last...

Custom Seat Creations · August 22nd, 2009, 04:27 PM

Alex,

My situation looks nearly identical!

Thanks,
Becky

Custom Seat Creations · August 23rd, 2009, 09:18 PM

I miss my bike already. Next Spring I'll have to get another one.

I finally got a copy of the police report. Makes me quake inside just looking at it.

BlueTyke · August 24th, 2009, 06:49 AM

:: HUGGGGGG ::

That is all

Custom Seat Creations · August 24th, 2009, 07:29 AM

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Originally Posted by BlueTyke

:: HUGGGGGG ::

That is all

Thanks Sunny!

Strider · August 24th, 2009, 02:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Custom Seat Creations

I miss my bike already. Next Spring I'll have to get another one.

That's the spirit Becky! Get right back on as soon as you can

Let's get 2010's together!

ztrack157 · August 24th, 2009, 02:17 PM

Glad your doing better and have a good support team. What was the final verdict on the police report? Obviously she was at fault but what wer the other details leading up. Hopefully you lawyer make sure you are well taken care of and compensated of all the mess you have been through. In the mean time just stay as comfy as possible.

Custom Seat Creations · August 24th, 2009, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Strider

That's the spirit Becky! Get right back on as soon as you can

Let's get 2010's together!

Sounds good!

ztrack157 · August 24th, 2009, 02:40 PM

Generally the charge carrys no pokey time. She'll probably get probation and her license revoked for 6 months to a year. If it was reckless driving she could get a month in jail.

Custom Seat Creations · August 24th, 2009, 02:43 PM

BlueTyke · August 24th, 2009, 02:55 PM

It amazes me how they can (I understand because they have to) state all that so non-chalantly you know? This is someone's life!

The diagram, though informative, is graphic when you know the person they are dealing with.

noche_caliente · August 24th, 2009, 04:38 PM

My God Becky, that just gives me chills. Are you ok after seeing it? *hugs*

ztrack157 · August 24th, 2009, 04:45 PM

Damn. Did the driver admit why she went off the road in the first place?

Strider · August 24th, 2009, 05:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BlueTyke

It amazes me how they can (I understand because they have to) state all that so non-chalantly you know? This is someone's life!

The diagram, though informative, is graphic when you know the person they are dealing with.

I second that, I got chills looking at it...
She's not a statistic , she's our friend!

Sailariel · August 24th, 2009, 05:39 PM

Becky, That`s some Heavy stuff. I have to say that I am surprised (and pleased) that you are dealing with this trauma as early as you are. Do pace yourself. I used to deal with trauma victims professionally for 25 years. Reading between the lines in your threads, presents an exceptionally optimistic picture. There is no question in my mind that you will come through this stronger than you ever were in the past. Pace yourself and you will be fine. Prayers are still coming your way. Sent you a PM, Alex

Custom Seat Creations · August 24th, 2009, 08:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BlueTyke

It amazes me how they can (I understand because they have to) state all that so non-chalantly you know? This is someone's life!

The diagram, though informative, is graphic when you know the person they are dealing with.

Definately scarry stuff!

Custom Seat Creations · August 24th, 2009, 08:42 PM

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Originally Posted by noche_caliente

My God Becky, that just gives me chills. Are you ok after seeing it? *hugs*

It hit me hard to see me as the stick figure. Shaken, but still here. Thank you. It really helps to talk about all of this.

Custom Seat Creations · August 24th, 2009, 08:47 PM

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Originally Posted by ztrack157

Damn. Did the driver admit why she went off the road in the first place?

No idea. It isn't anywhere in the report. I'm just glad no one died. On page 1 of the report there's a space for that. We're all so darned lucky. There were also 2 other people in the car with her. They could have been thrown from the car and rolled over. There's so many what ifs running through my head. 5 people survived that day.

Custom Seat Creations · August 24th, 2009, 08:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Strider

I second that, I got chills looking at it...
She's not a statistic , she's our friend!

Thanks Alan! We all could have easily been just a statistic. I just take one day at a time, the best I know how.

Imthebriman · August 24th, 2009, 09:03 PM

You are in my prayers becky. Stay optimistic and you will pull through everything!

DarkNinja52 · August 24th, 2009, 09:10 PM

wow. Glad you're doing well though. not much is really running through my head after reading that except for "wow". I can't even imagine how you feel after reading that.

Momaru · August 24th, 2009, 10:03 PM

Just finally got caught up with all that's been posted here and all I can say is 'wow.' Very glad to have you still here and I think we're all encouraged by your strength. Keep up the good work healing and +1 to all the well-wishes already here.

Verus Cidere · August 25th, 2009, 01:34 AM

.....'Cause every little thing is gonna be alright!

Getting through this one step at a time! You're a winner in my book!

Tigress · August 25th, 2009, 04:32 AM

God is good all the time. And all the time God is good. You are truly blessed Becky.

BlueTyke · August 25th, 2009, 06:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Verus Cidere

.....'Cause every little thing is gonna be alright!

Getting through this one step at a time! You're a winner in my book!

I like this

August 16th, 2009, 05:16 PM	#121
ninjablk08 ninjette.org guru Name: oscar Location: antioch, ca (bay area) Join Date: Feb 2009 Motorcycle(s): blk ninja 250 2008 Posts: 391	prayers out to you Becky and your love ones __________________________________________________ 2 bro CFSO, factory pro 3, hotbody DS , krayzie graphics rim tape, brake flasher, DIY fender chop, DIY flushmounts & LED rear, K&N filter, 15/43 Driven, DID race chain, air stuff removed, clipons

August 16th, 2009, 05:59 PM	#122
DarkNinja52 ninjette.org sage Name: aj Location: New York / PA Join Date: Jul 2009 Motorcycle(s): Red 09 Ninja 250r aka Sheila (RIP), Red '10 Ninja 250r aka Sasha (Sold), White '13 Ninja 300 (To be Purchased) Posts: 855	My prayers go to you Becky, Keep positive thoughts in your head, the mind is much more powerful than most people realize. Keep your chin up and you'll be better in no time. Just remember: Sunny days wouldn't be special, if it weren't for rain, and joy wouldn't feel so good, if it weren't for pain. Life is hard but it makes you realize the good things you have, focus on the good things and keep those positive thoughts. Everyone here at ninjette.org is supporting you, you'll get through this.. __________________________________________________

August 16th, 2009, 06:45 PM	#123
Strider Back on the Black! Name: Alan Location: Gastonia, North Carolina Join Date: Jan 2009 Motorcycle(s): 2006 Kawasaki Ninja EX250 (Black) Posts: 831	My Advice : Keep your family close, and hug them as much as you can... You'll be surprised at the pick-me-up that gives you Rest and Heal! We're keeping you in our thoughts! __________________________________________________ - - - - - - - - - - - - - - ATGATT 4EVER

August 16th, 2009, 11:04 PM	#127
Verus Cidere ninjette.org certified postwhore Name: Michael Location: Southern NM Join Date: Feb 2009 Motorcycle(s): '91 Honda CBR600 F2 Posts: A lot.	Glad to hear you're getting better! Keep up the good work! __________________________________________________ 1991 Honda CBR600 F2, White/Gray, D&D slip-on exhaust, tail integrator, gel grips, Custom undertail.

August 17th, 2009, 07:13 AM	#128
BlueTyke So slow I'm first! Name: Sunny Location: San Jose, CA Join Date: Oct 2008 Motorcycle(s): 06 Kawasaki Ninja EX250 Posts: A lot. Blog Entries: 10	When ever you are down, read this thread. Know that you are thought of, loved, and valued. Remember there is always light at the end of the tunnel. Some good qoutes for a Blue Day from Winnie the Pooh: Rivers know this: there is no hurry. We shall get there some day. When looking at your two paws, as soon as you have decided which of them is the right one, then you can be sure the other one is the left. Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass...it's about getting out there and dancing in the rain! __________________________________________________ Learn from the mistakes of others, you cannot make them all yourself. Save yourself the trouble and Learn.

August 18th, 2009, 10:12 AM	#130
BlueTyke So slow I'm first! Name: Sunny Location: San Jose, CA Join Date: Oct 2008 Motorcycle(s): 06 Kawasaki Ninja EX250 Posts: A lot. Blog Entries: 10	Anytime! __________________________________________________ Learn from the mistakes of others, you cannot make them all yourself. Save yourself the trouble and Learn.

August 22nd, 2009, 08:04 AM	#131
Custom Seat Creations Sportbike Seat Covers Name: Becky Location: Colorado Springs Join Date: Dec 2008 Motorcycle(s): 10' Special Edition Tribal 250 Red/Black ; 08' Ninja 250 (RIP by a cager); 05' Honda CBR 600 Posts: 235	Each day feels better than before. I slept almost the whole day yesterday. Felt really good. I definately feel stir-crazy having to rest all the time. I'm normally a go go person. Movies sure help from the tedium. I think I'll write a journal of what's been happening and hopefully someday can post it here. __________________________________________________ Bonanzle Store-CSC Seat Covers

August 22nd, 2009, 08:10 AM	#132
noche_caliente ninjette.org certified postwhore Name: Kim Location: mundo de ensueño Join Date: Nov 2008 Motorcycle(s): '08 250 Posts: A lot.	Becky - thanks for updating us - you've been on my mind! __________________________________________________ Progrip tank pad, blue rim stripes, blue Pazzos, Roaring Toyz lowering kit, Puig DB in dark smoke, Cortech sport tail, super mini tank, and saddlebags, OES swingarm spools and Intuitive frame sliders

August 22nd, 2009, 12:08 PM	#136
Alex ninjette.org dude Name: 1 guess :-) Location: SF Bay Area Join Date: Jun 2008 Motorcycle(s): '13 Ninja 300 (white, the fastest color!), '13 R1200RT, '14 CRF250L, '12 TT-R125LE Posts: Too much. Blog Entries: 7	Hang in there, Becky! The keys to this are a comfy couch, a whole bunch of comfort food, a particularly advanced remote control in front of a very large TV, and folks that are happy to bring over as much food and Vicodin as needed. Every day will be a little better than the last... __________________________________________________ Montgomery Street Motorcycle Club / cal24.com / crf250l.org / ninjette.org ninjette.org Terms of Service Shopping for motorcycle parts or equipment? Come here first. The friendliest Ninja 250R/300/400 forum on the internet! (especially Unregistered)

August 22nd, 2009, 04:27 PM	#137
Custom Seat Creations Sportbike Seat Covers Name: Becky Location: Colorado Springs Join Date: Dec 2008 Motorcycle(s): 10' Special Edition Tribal 250 Red/Black ; 08' Ninja 250 (RIP by a cager); 05' Honda CBR 600 Posts: 235	Alex, My situation looks nearly identical! Thanks, Becky __________________________________________________ Bonanzle Store-CSC Seat Covers

August 23rd, 2009, 09:18 PM	#138
Custom Seat Creations Sportbike Seat Covers Name: Becky Location: Colorado Springs Join Date: Dec 2008 Motorcycle(s): 10' Special Edition Tribal 250 Red/Black ; 08' Ninja 250 (RIP by a cager); 05' Honda CBR 600 Posts: 235	I miss my bike already. Next Spring I'll have to get another one. I finally got a copy of the police report. Makes me quake inside just looking at it. __________________________________________________ Bonanzle Store-CSC Seat Covers

August 24th, 2009, 06:49 AM	#139
BlueTyke So slow I'm first! Name: Sunny Location: San Jose, CA Join Date: Oct 2008 Motorcycle(s): 06 Kawasaki Ninja EX250 Posts: A lot. Blog Entries: 10	:: HUGGGGGG :: That is all __________________________________________________ Learn from the mistakes of others, you cannot make them all yourself. Save yourself the trouble and Learn.

August 24th, 2009, 02:17 PM	#142
ztrack157 The Sportisi Master Name: Matt Location: Chico Join Date: May 2009 Motorcycle(s): 2008 Ninja 250 Posts: A lot.	Glad your doing better and have a good support team. What was the final verdict on the police report? Obviously she was at fault but what wer the other details leading up. Hopefully you lawyer make sure you are well taken care of and compensated of all the mess you have been through. In the mean time just stay as comfy as possible. __________________________________________________ Sportisimoto USA is born.

August 24th, 2009, 02:40 PM	#144
ztrack157 The Sportisi Master Name: Matt Location: Chico Join Date: May 2009 Motorcycle(s): 2008 Ninja 250 Posts: A lot.	Generally the charge carrys no pokey time. She'll probably get probation and her license revoked for 6 months to a year. If it was reckless driving she could get a month in jail. __________________________________________________ Sportisimoto USA is born.

August 24th, 2009, 02:43 PM	#145
Custom Seat Creations Sportbike Seat Covers Name: Becky Location: Colorado Springs Join Date: Dec 2008 Motorcycle(s): 10' Special Edition Tribal 250 Red/Black ; 08' Ninja 250 (RIP by a cager); 05' Honda CBR 600 Posts: 235	Police Report __________________________________________________ Bonanzle Store-CSC Seat Covers

August 24th, 2009, 02:55 PM	#146
BlueTyke So slow I'm first! Name: Sunny Location: San Jose, CA Join Date: Oct 2008 Motorcycle(s): 06 Kawasaki Ninja EX250 Posts: A lot. Blog Entries: 10	It amazes me how they can (I understand because they have to) state all that so non-chalantly you know? This is someone's life! The diagram, though informative, is graphic when you know the person they are dealing with. __________________________________________________ Learn from the mistakes of others, you cannot make them all yourself. Save yourself the trouble and Learn.

August 24th, 2009, 04:38 PM	#147
noche_caliente ninjette.org certified postwhore Name: Kim Location: mundo de ensueño Join Date: Nov 2008 Motorcycle(s): '08 250 Posts: A lot.	My God Becky, that just gives me chills. Are you ok after seeing it? hugs __________________________________________________ Progrip tank pad, blue rim stripes, blue Pazzos, Roaring Toyz lowering kit, Puig DB in dark smoke, Cortech sport tail, super mini tank, and saddlebags, OES swingarm spools and Intuitive frame sliders

August 24th, 2009, 04:45 PM	#148
ztrack157 The Sportisi Master Name: Matt Location: Chico Join Date: May 2009 Motorcycle(s): 2008 Ninja 250 Posts: A lot.	Damn. Did the driver admit why she went off the road in the first place? __________________________________________________ Sportisimoto USA is born.

August 24th, 2009, 05:39 PM	#150
Sailariel ninjette.org certified postwhore Name: Alex Location: Belfast, ME Join Date: Jul 2008 Motorcycle(s): 2010 Honda NT-700-V, formerly, Green 2008 Ninja 250R Posts: A lot.	Becky, That`s some Heavy stuff. I have to say that I am surprised (and pleased) that you are dealing with this trauma as early as you are. Do pace yourself. I used to deal with trauma victims professionally for 25 years. Reading between the lines in your threads, presents an exceptionally optimistic picture. There is no question in my mind that you will come through this stronger than you ever were in the past. Pace yourself and you will be fine. Prayers are still coming your way. Sent you a PM, Alex

August 24th, 2009, 09:03 PM	#155
Imthebriman ninjette.org member Name: Brian Location: Lubbock, Tx Join Date: Aug 2009 Motorcycle(s): 07 Kawi 250R Posts: 31	You are in my prayers becky. Stay optimistic and you will pull through everything!

August 24th, 2009, 09:10 PM	#156
DarkNinja52 ninjette.org sage Name: aj Location: New York / PA Join Date: Jul 2009 Motorcycle(s): Red 09 Ninja 250r aka Sheila (RIP), Red '10 Ninja 250r aka Sasha (Sold), White '13 Ninja 300 (To be Purchased) Posts: 855	wow. Glad you're doing well though. not much is really running through my head after reading that except for "wow". I can't even imagine how you feel after reading that. __________________________________________________

August 24th, 2009, 10:03 PM	#157
Momaru ninjette.org certified postwhore Name: Paul Location: Roanoke, VA Join Date: Jun 2009 Motorcycle(s): 2008 Candy Plasma Blue 250R Posts: A lot.	Just finally got caught up with all that's been posted here and all I can say is 'wow.' Very glad to have you still here and I think we're all encouraged by your strength. Keep up the good work healing and +1 to all the well-wishes already here. __________________________________________________ Proud member of the Blue Army

August 25th, 2009, 01:34 AM	#158
Verus Cidere ninjette.org certified postwhore Name: Michael Location: Southern NM Join Date: Feb 2009 Motorcycle(s): '91 Honda CBR600 F2 Posts: A lot.	.....'Cause every little thing is gonna be alright! Getting through this one step at a time! You're a winner in my book! __________________________________________________ 1991 Honda CBR600 F2, White/Gray, D&D slip-on exhaust, tail integrator, gel grips, Custom undertail.

August 25th, 2009, 04:32 AM	#159
Tigress Musical Genius Name: Belinda Location: O'Fallon, MO Join Date: Aug 2009 Motorcycle(s): 09 Ninja 250R Blue AKA "The Kid" 08 Vulcan 900 Classic Blue(for now) AKA "Honey" Posts: 146	God is good all the time. And all the time God is good. You are truly blessed Becky. __________________________________________________ ti·gress n. 1. A female tiger. 2. A woman regarded as daring or fierce.

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