September 21st, 2010, 01:14 PM | #1 |
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buying drinks at the bar
I have a question for the men and women here. I've noticed that men go to bars and buy drinks for women in hopes for something in return, what is your take on this.
Being a woman, and going to bars/clubs with my girlfriends, I've had discussions with them where they say that they leave their money at home cuz "thats what the guys are for". so in essence, some girls go out to the bars and scout out guys to buy drinks. What do you think about this? I use to work as a bartender for a very short time, I would notice a fairly decent looking guy come in, sit at the bar order his drink...he would look through the crowd of women and pick out the most hottest girl and go up to her and ask her if she wanted a drink, if the girl said no...he'd come back to the bar and look at the crowd of women again and pick out another hot girl, but maybe less hotter then the first...then offer her a drink...as the night went on...he would just go from hot to not so hot women till he caught someones attention. Just want to see what your take on it is.
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September 21st, 2010, 01:26 PM | #2 |
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Never buying girls drinks ever again. In my opinion it's close to prostitution but without 'providing the service'.
If this is a way to chat someone up, try 'hi' instead. It's cheaper, and offers pretty much the same outcome |
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September 21st, 2010, 01:28 PM | #3 |
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Im to cheap to buy a drink for someone, also I think my wife would kill me if I bought anther girl a drink. lol
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September 21st, 2010, 01:29 PM | #4 |
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LOL "close to prostitution" thats hilarious!
why do you say you're never buying drinks for girls AGAIN? whats your story?
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September 21st, 2010, 01:38 PM | #5 |
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I might have done that once or twice... It felt like everybody stared at me and thought 'loser'... And partly because when I see other guys buying drinks for girls they don't know, and the girls just take them and run away... I look at those guys and think to myself 'loser' - oh well, I've been there too LOL
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September 21st, 2010, 01:42 PM | #6 |
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The girls that flirt with you for drinks - they only want drinks and not interested in you... Experience teaches - that's why 'never again'
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September 21st, 2010, 02:05 PM | #7 |
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I only do it if they buy me the first drink cause then you know they have at least a little interest in you and are not just flirting with a different guy every half hour for a drink.
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September 21st, 2010, 02:06 PM | #8 |
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what about before you got married? what was your take on it then?
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September 21st, 2010, 02:06 PM | #9 |
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^^^ Now that's what I call a "liberated" woman.
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September 21st, 2010, 02:09 PM | #10 |
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Here's an old joke that might fit in here -
A guy goes up to an attractive girl in the bar and, attempting to pick her up, says, "Would you sleep with me if I offered you $1,000,000"? She stops and thinks for just a second and says. "Sure". Then he asks her, "What if I offered you $2?" She quickly responds. "What do you think I am, a whore?" And he says, "We already established that, we were just haggling over the price". Just thought I'd throw that out there. |
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September 21st, 2010, 02:12 PM | #11 |
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Lol Nope, I've never bought a girl a drink that I didnt know. Its a waste. Most likely they wont talk to you after the get that drink. BUT, if you can manage to have them stick around and get them drunk, then maybe they guy may have a chance!!
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September 21st, 2010, 02:13 PM | #12 |
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the only time i took a drink from a guy and walked away, was when a guy approached me and asked me to dance, i said um...no thanks, and my tone make it very obviouse i WAS NOT interested, then he went on to say...want anything to drink. i said sure...and bought the drink, handed it to me, and i walked away...bitchy yes...stupid of him...most certainly.
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September 21st, 2010, 02:20 PM | #14 |
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What did Pink sing? "keep your drink just give me the money its just you and yuor hand tonight."
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September 21st, 2010, 02:21 PM | #15 |
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I think that if a guy offers to buy a girl a drink he should do it with the intention of not expecting anything in return so that he will not get disappoint if nothing comes of it but be pleasantly surprised if things do go well.
I also believe that a girl should not ask a guy for a drink. If a guy is interested in her than he will offer her a drink. For a girl to go from guy to guy in search of a drink is not right and makes her a user and a wh***. Just my 2 cents. |
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September 21st, 2010, 02:32 PM | #17 |
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then you see them the next morning in natural daylight and you think to yourself...WTF? lol
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September 21st, 2010, 02:37 PM | #18 |
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September 21st, 2010, 02:43 PM | #19 |
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I thought when you bought the girl a drink it came with the lap dance. So are you paying for the drink or dance?
On a more serious note (yea right), I never go to bars to pick up women. I always go with friends and if I meet someone it is by accident. I find meeting woman at other locations easier and more fun (at least I can remember their name, more often). I like the gym, grocery store, or just out and about to talk to the ladies and there is much less stress for both parties. I talk to everyone everwhere so it's hard to tell if I'm hitting on someone. I have to admit I've been hustled by many a lady and find that fun too.
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September 21st, 2010, 04:32 PM | #21 |
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nope, not me...
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September 21st, 2010, 05:01 PM | #22 |
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When I went to the bars frequently I always went with guy friends... I donno I get along better with guys than girls. They always bought drinks for me unless it was ladies night I ended up buying drinks for them lol. I used to get so mad at them because I felt like I was a moocher.
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i know it's kinda messed up... but a few years back, when we were really broke, my boyfriend and i would go out, and i'd get guys to buy me drinks, and bring them back for us
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September 21st, 2010, 05:23 PM | #26 |
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you don't have anything to hold me up on that saddle
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HAHAHAHAHA thats awesome! hey, if the guys are stupid enough to fall for it, then i say go for it! it sucks, but seriously, some guys are really stupid.
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September 21st, 2010, 05:26 PM | #28 |
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I'm a bartender here in my town....let me tell you....its sad to see all the guys walking into a bar buying ladies drinks...ALL NIGHT. They just look desperate......
tip fella's....tell HER to buy YOU a drink. I've done it successfully and i've seen people in my bar do the SAME thing. Hahaha you have to say it right though without sounding like a dictator....more like a joke but serious enough so she can tell you aren't kidding. Walk up to her and say " hey you know I think your really pretty and I can tell guys have been buying you drinks all night so I know you have a ton of cash in your purse....I hate to leave it sit there so you can buy me a drink...i'll be sitting over there with my friends." works like a charm. |
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September 21st, 2010, 05:31 PM | #29 |
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Gotta buy the ugly friend the drink and infiltrate the group. THEN work your magic on the hot one. Newbs
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Never did the Bar Scene because I am extremely allergic to Cigarette Smoke. Sniffeling with eyes running and sneezing would not exactly make me apealling. I would meet women at Sailing clubs, Sports Car Autocrosses, Skiing, etc. Met my wife sailing. Been together 25 years.
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September 21st, 2010, 05:41 PM | #34 |
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works for some......not for others.....i've used it many times with great success but different women i guess?? these are all college age girls in their early 20's....not sure if this makes a difference......mindset may be different? not sure.
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ya you're right, it depends on the girl...when i go to bars i don't go there to pick up or to take someone home with me (yuck)...i go to drink and have a good time with the people i'm with...so if a dude asked me that, i'd be like wtf? unless by some crazy miracle some guy catches my eye and we make eye contact (i actually show some type of interest) and he comes up to me and says that, i'd be totally turned off.
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I just have fun at bars and chill. I would never buy a random hot woman at the grocery store a roll of paper towels in hopes of sleeping with her or getting her number, so why would I buy a hot woman a drink at a bar for the same purpose? Odds are slim in both cases.
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Hypothetically speaking, of course.
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